so i thought i’d give it another shot. i’m away from home til the end of the month, and tonight – well actually the last several days – i’ve been horribly anxious for no apparent reason. feeling like i’m on the verge of a panic attack. can’t get enough oxygen. heart racing. can’t breathe. wish my body would calm down already.
i’m feeling a bit let down by online people as of late. wondering how much care is really there. it’s frustrating that it can be there one minute and absent the next. but i choose to write this blog for myself and not others, so i’m learning i must keep a safe emotional distance. i’ve been burned too many times by people who said that they “cared.” for online people that means that they care in that particular moment. then they up and leave. just the way of things i suppose, it’s just hard for me to understand how people operate that way. am i suppose to play that same game, and pull away just if and when i feel like it? what a fucked up world that would be if that were the case. but i’m at the point now where it’s hard caring about any of my online relationships when i’ve had so many of these experiences. one person can ruin it for everyone, isn’t it? or perhaps two. or three.
i know this blog isn’t going to be as popular as my other blog. that’s completely fine. in fact, i want it that way. i want to be able to say what i want, when i want, and not actually have to care. can anyone tell i’m feeling a bit jaded at the moment? jaded and pissed and anxious and not caring about anyone or anything. if no one cares about me then why should i care about them. i’m truly sick of it. i really am.
signed,
someone who doesn’t give a crap tonight